How do you like to be treated by other people?
What words would you use to describe someone who is kind to others in spite of how they're
being treated by others?

Sometimes we have to fight temptations that seem irresistible, a match we can't win unless someone steps in the ring with us.
I do admit that I have trouble controling myself(the thoughts in me)
I think of others first rather than myself
I can say that I'm not dealing it properly

There is a saying

"A person without self-control is as defenseless as a city with broken-down walls"

It hurts a lot and it feels like my heart is crush into pieces